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My “Skewed” View of Romance

February 11, 2010 by  

Thanks to: Suppah, Princess, the Chief, JennFAb, and Mommy is in the Bathroom, my Assignment is my view/skew on romance. Hempf.

This one is a hard one for me, as I fear that I will sound like I’m bragging; well, I’m not. My husband actually gives me all of the attention I could possibly need (for those who have know me — this is QUITE THE FEAT).  I never thought I’d be able to say that about my husband. I am one lucky girl.

Four kids later, 8 1/2 years into marriage, my version of romance, specifically, has been skewed a bit. But, that’s okay… because it’s our new normal. What I now consider to be romantic isn’t all you read in the novels. I know hubs loves me to pieces, and vice versa. Romance to me is (and HE will score major bedroom points for):

  • Letting me download my pics without being interrupted (by him or the kids)
  • Let me edit pics and not askHow much longer are you going to take? The kids and I really would like to spend time with you.”
  • Let me work on The Corporate Housing Network, and play around on Today’s Cliche, while hopping around others’ blogs, without him saying: “How much longer are you going to take? The kids and I really would like to spend time with you.”
  • On a Saturday morning or Sunday afternoon, “Kat, I’ll hold down the fort here, why don’t you just go to a coffee shop (Sat. morning), or grab a cocktail (Sunday afternoon) with your laptop, and get all of the things you couldn’t get done during the week accomplished. I’m sure you didn’t get a chance to pay all of our bills online yet, or go through the 287 emails from the kids’ elementary school and preschool and pop all of the upcoming commitments, projects, and due items into the calendar yet. Go ahead… We’ll miss you while you’re gone, but I know you need this for your sanity and ours; I know your need to cross items off your list.”
  • He’d then continue with: “You know what? Why you’re there, why don’t you stay for a few more hours once you’ve knocked that out, and work on TCHNetwork.com and if time permits, work on Today’s Cliche. Heck, I’ll just put the kids to bed for you — why don’t you stay until about 10 pm, and start organizing all of the pics you’ve been meaning to do for 7 years? That would be great, not only for you, but for our family.

    • Following, he’d say, “And when you get home, just hop on the couch with me, I’ll get out the foot lotion and massage your feet for an hour. Then, I’ll tickle your back and expect nothing in return.
    • He’d end with: “You know, thinking further, in the morning honey, why don’t you sneak away again and pop around your favorite sites? I know you don’t have any time for that… and that would not only be enjoyable for you, but would help out Today’s Cliche tremendously.”

And, he’d score MAJOR, MAJOR POINTS if 50% of the above really played out. Our new normal.

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20 Responses to “My “Skewed” View of Romance”
  1. Him bringing me coffee and spending time with the kids is a good way for my hubs to win romance points.


  2. supah says:

    New Normal… love that ! nothing better than a foot rub.
    THanks for joining up !



  3. I’m so glad you joined our panel today! Isn’t it funny how romance is different when we get older…

    Oh, and I’m a photography nut too. My prince will walk in the room and see me on the computer assuming I’m on facebook, but a lot of the time I’m on PHOTOSHOP!!!!


  4. Kathryn says:

    ooh, foot massage! that sounds woooooooooonderful! and cocktails on sunday afternoon? yes, please!


  5. Crystal says:

    haha, that is so funny, and I KNEW it wasn’t TRUE. I don’t think a single guy out there would ACTUALLY do those things. Maybe one or two 🙂 Wouldn’t that be so nice though?


  6. Love it! Don’t I wish half of your list would happen to me as well…currently listening to the hubby asking me what am I doing? Uh? Blogging, duh.

    Foot massage would be a nice norm too but I guess I have to be pregnant and on bedrest for that to happen again.


  7. MandyP says:

    How did I miss this post??? Oh wouldn’t that be sublime? Espscially love the back tickling with no expectations one. Great post (as usual!)


  8. Broot says:

    I am so tempted to write something similar for my hubby!! (8 years and 2 kids later…)


  9. Jasmine says:

    Now I know that is the real version of being romantic as a mother. There are some good husbands out there and I can’t wait to marry my soon to be. Stoping over from SISTA. Love the blog by the way!


  10. Heather says:

    I’m not married and don’t have kids, but the boyfriend would score some major points for those! Oh…and walking the dog for me would be great too.

    Happy SITS day!


  11. Marie Cole says:

    No kids so that is pretty much my life; a very attentive hubby and I can still get my job done. 😉


  12. here from SITS. This is great. Thank you for this trip down fantasy lane.


  13. Becky says:

    That’s hilarious!!! If you ever find another guy like that and he’s single please let me know asap!!! 🙂


  14. zeemaid says:

    *lol* For me it’s a half hour alone with my tea and a book.. who am I kidding two hours.. the whole day… yeah that’d be bliss. 😉


  15. Young Wife says:

    Tee hee! Stopping by from SITS.


  16. Jinnia says:

    Love your sense of humor! You have a knack for expressing what many of us moms are thinking…LOL.


    Kat Reply:

    That is sooo the goal – to help others to relate! Sooo glad I can do that for you, Jinnia! Off to read your blog now!


  17. Michelle says:

    I’m right there with you. My hubby does a great job of sharing the load. We have three little boys I’m a creative mess…sometimes it’s sewing, or blogging or just cleaning up after all the chaos. MOST of the time, not all of the time, my man will give me room to breath. And yes, that it’s enough to send me over the moon!


  18. Eve says:

    Oh, I DO like your version of romance! 😉


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