He Said: “It’s My Party & I Can Cry if I Want To…” ~ Her SITs Day
May 4, 2010 by Dave
This may be the beginning of the end. A guy’s post on a girls only website!?! Hopefully this doesn’t mean I have to attend the next Bunco party as well (knowing the girls in my neighborhood, I wouldn’t be able to stay up that late anyway).
I’m Dave, and I live in Kat’s bedroom. Looking back at our blogging career (all 5 months of it), I have to admit that the He Said/She Said concept has been fantastic (at least for me). I challenge you to name another situation where you can totally call out your spouse in front of family, friends and strangers WITHOUT retaliation – and, at times, even have her say “damn, what a great post.” Awesome.
As you know, marriage is for better or for worse. For the sake of this blog, I now have proof of the worse and the worser. There is a whole lot of “better” strewn about, but what’s the fun in blogging about that?!?
My hope is that, when reading our posts, you realize that a) your relationship is probably more normal than you realize, and b) a couple can truly enjoy the chaos that some folks call mirage. Err, marriage.
PS – Now that I’ve posted here, should I get Tiffany & Heather’s approval on Spouse In The Soup (SITs)?












Great stuff! You guys are super creative.
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Kat Reply:
May 17th, 2010 at 1:11 pm
Super-creative? I wish… well, I do like being a little different… I’ll take creative! That’s so nice of you!
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fabulous blog!
for REAL!
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I’m also stopping by from SITS and want to wish you both continued success with your blog. I love getting the male/female perspective, and think this is such a creative endeavor.
Best of luck with all that you do!
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