She Said: “It’s My Party & I Can Cry if I Want To…” ~ My SITs Day
May 4, 2010 by Kat
… How cliche, ehh? However, it’s very ap.ro.pos for me, especially today.
It’s my party. Welcome SITStas! Huh? Non-bloggers, don’t ask. Looooooooonnng story.
You must stop here to see what-the-heck-this-site-is-all-about and here to see what a nut-job I am trying to balance 4 little ones and a career… if you haven’t already.
Let me know if you can relate to any of these ~ some KEY posts:
- My “Skewed” View of Romance
- Seriously? Dear WalMart
- She Said: There’s No Place Like Home
- She Said: Are You Kidding Me?
Oh, if you click here, you can hear my interview on Oprah Radio with Gayle which sums up where HE and SHE met… [oh, I just HATE the sound of my voice. Don't we all..].
One more thing — I have a 
…That you just have to hook up with! Click the badge for details:
Ah… while I’m at it, these are some pretty good pieces of ammunition, if you need some bathroom material:
- When I fell into the Cliche trap and went over-the-top with the damn “Car Sticker Family” thing
- When I scared the snot outta my Cleaning people (who replies in the Comment section under “Shy”)
- When I was a freakin’ mall rat
- When HE and SHE went to a Neighborhood “White Trash” party
Hubs actually wrote a “HE SAID” to this SITs post — please check it out here:
What a fun blog! Congrats on your SITS day, to both of you!
Cheers
http://mommamaybemad.blogspot.com/2010/05/home-sick.html
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Kat Reply:
May 12th, 2010 at 4:03 pm
Thanks, Kerry! Will hop over to yours as well!
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Congrats on your SITS day! I’m a new follower! What a great concept for a blog, now off to read some more …
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Kat Reply:
May 12th, 2010 at 4:04 pm
Thanks, girl!
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Yay for you!!! Happy SITS day! You guys so deserve to be the featured blogger.
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What a great idea for a blog! It’s so creative and unique. I loved reading the stories you posted!
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Kat Reply:
May 12th, 2010 at 4:04 pm
Gosh, thanks, Valerie. Means so much!
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Hi there. Happy SITS day to ya. I’m totally enjoying peeking around your blog. I love this whole premise. And I’m really interested in reading more posts on how you work on your children to have a good relationship. I’m a momma of 9month old triplets. And my worse fear is that they’ll compete for attention or be jealous of one another. I know this starts with us so I’m really and truly interested to read your take on how you work with this. I’m off to continue peeking……
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Kat Reply:
May 12th, 2010 at 4:07 pm
9 month old TRIPLETS??? Wowsers! Can’t wait to head over to your site!
I can totally see your concern about the jealousy thing. I think it’ll be LESS about that, but more about their concerns over “things being fair”. You will hear PLENTY of “that’s NOT FAIR”s over your lifetime. I don’t think they’ll have the ability to compete for attention or be jealous… with triplets there won’t be enough time for that; you all will be soo busy and I guarantee they’ll be SOOO different from one another — it will likely be that they’re each on their own level playing fields, if that makes sense. That’s just my guess, of course!
Yes, it DOES start with you & your hubs. I don’t know if I fully uncover “HOW” I encourage their relationships. However, I do know consistency is key (gosh, how cliche!).
Thanks again for stopping by!
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oh, and am posting your thingy up on my blog for you. hope it helps
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Kat Reply:
May 12th, 2010 at 4:08 pm
Oh my GOSH! I’m BEYOND honored… AND Flattered! Thank you Cupcake Mommie!!
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Happy SITS Day!
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HAPPY SITS DAY! Love the back and forth of he said/she said… and so true about the Mars vs Venus divide.
Cheers,
Eliz
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Kat Reply:
May 12th, 2010 at 4:08 pm
I end almost EVERYTHING with “Cheers”… had to laugh. Thanks for your warm compliment!
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Happy SITS day, congrats!! Nice blog by the way!
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Great blog! I love the concept and the stories are great! I also love your idea to have your children help pay for their toys and stuff! I may have to use that one. Hope you have a wonderful SITS day!
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Kat Reply:
May 12th, 2010 at 4:09 pm
Thanks, Jayde!
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hi from SITS! i love the idea for this site and how you’ve set it up! and you definitely have my respect raising four kids with a career!!
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Kat Reply:
May 12th, 2010 at 4:09 pm
Ericka – thank you! Wasn’t actually “in” the plan…but is there such thing as a plan these days? Love YOUR site, too!
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Oh what a clever blog!! I love it! happy SITS day!!
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Kat Reply:
May 12th, 2010 at 4:09 pm
Thank you, Kim!
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Such a fun blog! I’m definitely going to show this to my husband.
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Kat Reply:
May 12th, 2010 at 4:10 pm
Erin – So… what did he think/say?
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Happy Sits Day! So… how did you get your man to blog????? Have any tips?
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Kat Reply:
May 12th, 2010 at 4:10 pm
No tips… just whine a lot…
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Love your site. Clever, clever. It looks like a lot of fun.
Here for SITS. I’ll friend you too.
Thanks,
Sarah
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So glad SITS featured you guys! I’m following now, for sure!
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Kat Reply:
May 12th, 2010 at 4:10 pm
Gosh, THANK YOU! That was so sweet, Amy…!
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What a fun blog! You have so many things going on here! Happy SITS Day!
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This is cool! I’m gonna enjoy this blog. Happy SITS day to you!
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Fan. Tastic. I LOVE the female vs. male perspective of this blog! I’m here from SITS and so glad I found you. Maybe there is hope yet in getting my husband on board the blog train.
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Happy SITS day! It couldn’t have happened to a better blog!
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I cannot believe how cute this idea is! great job! I LOVE it!
I love the he said, she said… SO awesome.
amy in peru
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Happy SITS day!!
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Almost missed your special day – I hope you had fun.
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Wonderful blog! Happy SITS day. Adding you to my Reader now.
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hey there! met you at Bloggy Boot Camp Baltimore, and have been here since, but CONGRATS anyway on yr big SITS day!!
Hope ‘He Said’ you done good.
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Kat Reply:
May 17th, 2010 at 1:27 pm
Kirsten – OF COURSE COURSE COURSE I remember you WELL!! So happy you swing by from time to time. I vow to do the same for you. These last few months, with my mom being sick, didn’t not allow me to do anything above and beyond simple “survival mode” Hugs to you!
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very cool blog! I love it! I’ve often suggested to hubby to do some “his perspective posts” but I can’t get him too. Good for you!!!
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What a fun idea! Happy SITS day! I’m off to read more…
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What a brilliant idea for a blog! Love the look of it and you have so much to choose from! Congrats to you and hang in there during these tough times. Happy SITS day!
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Kat Reply:
May 17th, 2010 at 1:29 pm
Thanks, Ashley. Just trying “to” hang in there, as you said!
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I *love* that you have a man who blogs… and shares his point of view!!
Happy SITS day!
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Kat Reply:
May 17th, 2010 at 1:25 pm
I thought it would be HARDER to convince him to “try” blogging. So glad he dove right in!
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Kat Reply:
May 17th, 2010 at 1:34 pm
Thanks! That means a lot. I know, I’m a lucky one!
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Happy SITS Day to you!!
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Happy SITS day!
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happy sits day! i’ve already been to your site several times, and always love it! so sorry to hear about the passing of your mom. hang in there.
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What a fun blog! I hope you had a great SITS day!
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congrats. on your SItS Day!What a cool Blog!!!I must read More!!!
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Well, this is different…………….and really fun! A she said/he said blog! A great idea! Its very apropos! Happy Sits day to the two of you!
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Kat Reply:
May 17th, 2010 at 1:21 pm
Thanks, Anne-Marie! I hope it never gets stale!
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Holy Crow this is quite some BLOG you both have – CONGRATS. I adore your fonts – and the photobucket slide show, so much to see and read I have been exploring your site all night!
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Kat Reply:
May 17th, 2010 at 1:21 pm
Wow!!! That means sooo much! You have NO IDEA what i have to go through for those DAMN fonts… but, it makes me all warm and fuzzy inside (the final product), but I’m gonna guess my kids suffer due to my obsession! Thank you soo much, Lindsey I can’t believe you’ve spent so much time on my site. YOU know how much that means to a fellow blogger, right?
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Brilliant blog, happy SITS day (belatedly).
Do I get in trouble for commenting on he said first?
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Kat Reply:
May 17th, 2010 at 1:19 pm
Major, MAJOR trouble. You know GIRLS need to stick together! Next time make sure you comment on my post 1st
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Happy belated SITS day.
My condolences to you and your family.
LisaDay
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Kat Reply:
May 17th, 2010 at 1:18 pm
THanks, LisaDay. Means so much!
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Happy SITS day
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Cool concept…off to read more! Happy SITS day!!
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Kat Reply:
May 17th, 2010 at 1:22 pm
Thanks, Tiffany!
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Congrats on your SITS day. I feel for the loss of your mom. My mother passed away several years ago now and though I have come to terms with it this time of year makes me want to smash the TV in with a baseball bat.
Your site is great and I think its awesome you both participate in it.
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Kat Reply:
May 17th, 2010 at 1:17 pm
Nothing like telling it like it is. It’s so true though… I’m just so jealous/envious of my friends who still have their “mommies”. Love your baseball bat visual. You’re not kidding, Kita!
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Happy SITS day to you both! So fun and laugh out loud funny!
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Kat Reply:
May 17th, 2010 at 1:16 pm
Laugh out loud funny? Really? I’m humbled, Kim! Thank you!
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You’ve got one cool website! Great graphics and layout. Happy SITS day!
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Happy SITS Day!
Although, I must confess, that I’m really bummed now.
This blog is so dang good, tht I hope no one ever comes to mine after being here.
Seriously. This is out of this world.
Very nice. Creative.Looks Beautiful. Clever writing. Relevant topics.
You’re like the jeans from Macy’s vs jeans from Target(which would be me..)
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Hey Kat!!! I’m sorry I didn’t make it over here yesterday on your very special and very exciting SITS day!!!! Yeah, you deserve it!!!!
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Oh my goodness!! This blog is just WAY too adorable… ahem, and masculine:) So glad I got to stop by and visit:) I am now a FOLLOWER of YOU GUYS!! xo
Ps- Stop by my blog if you ever get a chance… I think you would enjoy it:)
xo
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This really is a fun blog!!! Love the concept… and the fun writing style!! Congrats on your SITS day!!
~Tabitha
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Happy belated SITS day! I’m still recovering from mine. Phew. I love your blog and have for awhile! Such a neat concept you have going on here.
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I am late, but Happy SITS Day!!
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